Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go

"Don't Call That Man!"

by Rhonda Findling

I saw this book just as I was about to call "that man" again - the one my friends told me to dump before I went completely crazy. Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go is indeed a survival guide to letting go of toxic relationships that many of us have at some time in our lives. There are questions and writing exercises in the book that help us understand why we are attracted to men who have no interest in us romantically and never will regardless of what we do to change their minds. Instead, this book teaches us the techniques in recovering from rejection and moving on with the help of a support system. The writing exercises are invaluable and therapeutic. When you finish reading Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go, you will have taken the first step towards finding and attracting men who are emotionally available and are able to meet your needs. So, before you pick up the phone, read this book! ~Joanne C. (Ph.D.). Donnelly

'Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go' Book Description
Written by a psychotherapist who has helped many women weather the heartbreak of a failed relationship, this uplifting and encouraging guide to letting go and moving on uses practical techniques to guide readers through a difficult and heart-wrenching process. With simple, enlightening exercises that will help readers chart their progress through a tough but important transition, this book shows that getting over and moving on may not be as simple as not picking up the phone; but it's a great place to start.

From the Author
I'm very happy that my book "Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go" has given me the opportunity to help so many women let of of relationships that are unhealthy, abusive or not giving them the love they feel they deserve. I have also written a novel "Mourning Losses" (also sold on Amazon) that tells the story of a woman's journey as she tries to let go of a relationship with a man who isn't good for her. I am hoping my books help women let go of unreciprocated love so that they are available to men who are capable of meeting their emotional needs.

From the Inside Flap
There is life after a failed relationship as long as you Don't Call That Man!. In this inspirational, revolutionary guide to letting go and moving on after the trauma of a breakup, psychotherapist Rhonda Findling teaches women how to triumph over the almost obsessive urge to pick up the phone.

With its prescriptive, easy-to-follow approach, Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go is an indispensable tool for weathering the pain of heartbreak. It features simple exercises that provide an emotional outlet for a difficult process; charts that schedule free time away from the telephone; and much more, including:

-Moving on from a ruined relationship -What is an ambivalent man, and how do you get over him? -Mothers, fathers and men -Building and using a support system -The 10-Step program to not call that man

Step-by-step, from heartache to healing, Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go is a map on how to heal the pain of a lost love; how to overcome feelings of neediness and desperation; and above all, how to regain focus on what's important and it's not calling that man. It's the perfect book to embrace on the way to a new and more gratifying relationship.

READER'S COMMENTS ON Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go

This author can offer authoritative, insightful information to a recently heartbroken woman because she has an active psychotherapy practice in which she specifically deals with women who experience relationship issues. I found Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go to offer clinical advice on some matters in terms easily understood by the layperson. This book explains why we often have the compulsion to call or otherwise cling to men who have clearly given us all indications that they no longer (or never) wish to commit to us and a relationship with us. I thank the author for creating this work because it truly helped me to refrain from calling (and allowing him to call me). I gleaned insight as to why, even after having left me, my ex still calls me to tell me that he loves me and wants to be with me--can we say AMBIVALENCE and MANIPULATION??? I am glad that I had this book to assist me with an exceptionally painful breakup--it helped me to understand WHY the breakup was painful and offered some steps to take to work through it. I found this book to be timely and useful. THANKS A MILLION!~BronxBoricua

RE: Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go

This is a great book to pick up and read when you are going through nail biting withdraws of just wanting to call the guy that just broke your heart. It puts the reality back into perspective and helps you redeem yourself. It puts reality on how you will feel after you have called and he has dumped on you again and what a set back that is. So instead of calling and making a fool out of yourself, pick up this book and read it until the longing goes away.~Shannon

Rhonda has done an excellent job of pointing out the dangers of persistently trying to take someone beyond where they want to go. The writer backs up her comments by presenting self-help exercises that are designed to help the reader get a better handle on what is actually going on, and reach mature conclusions. Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go also serves as a self-esteem builder, and bears the markings of compassionate writings.~Rosa

When it turns out that "the one" actually ain't, letting go can be near-impossible. The only way to do it is the title of this book. Don't. Call. That. Man. That's it. The great thing about Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go is that it's not that simplistic -- she goes into why we call, what we're trying to do, what we fear, what we lack, and how to heal. She's like that really great, intelligent friend who you never seem to listen to, but hey, you paid for this one, so you go and listen to her. At least that's how it worked for me. Highest recommendation from an ex-codependant who needed some (ok... a lot of) help breaking away.~Henrietta

Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go It's a weary phrase, but if you only buy one relationship book, it has to be this one! If you are looking for help understanding why it's so hard to stay away from the man you want to leave, this is the book for you. Very simple, down to earth terms and examples, it had me nodding my head in agreement on every page. And while you are waiting for it to arrive - DON'T CALL THAT MAN!~Gail

The book is as refreshingly straightforward as the title. "Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go" is a survival guide for the woman blindsided by feelings of rection triggered by a breakup. Providing solid advice on how to resist the temptation to call him when it seems to be the only way to alleviate the pain, Ms. Findling leads the reader through a series of exercises designed to uncover why a woman may be vulnerable to destructive men and relationships. While she devotes a chapter to recognizing the kind of "ambivalent man" whose seductive/rejective behavior patterns can make a woman crazy wondering what she did wrong, she wastes relatively little time trying to analyze HIM. Instead, she emphasizes the need to look within for self-acceptance. This is NOT a "man-bashing" book, nor does it contain superficial, "treat yourself to a bubble bath and manicure to make yourself feel better, ladies"-type advice - rather, it offers a solid road map to building a strong foundation of self-esteem and self-awareness that is critical to lasting individual happiness and in developing positive, committed relationships.~A Reader

RE: Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go

You search in vain of an answer that you will never get. When you are feeling vunerable, hurt, sad, angry. alone, desperate, you want something, anything to make you feel better. Obviously you know that a book arriving in the mail is not going to rid you of all of those emotions. It won't. But what it did do was provide a chance to breath in and breath out. I already know 50 things to do to not pick up the phone. I made "The" humilating phone call in July with the final begging and please come home stuff...now it is November and almost December and I have not picked up the phone. I did have to speak with him around divorce matters and I pushed myself to be just as cold and uncaring as he is. Still months later I ordered this book...in search of the answer I need. I think as I poured through the pages I got a lot of positive reinforcement that by not picking up the phone that I am starting to survive this. And you can too! Don't Call That Man. You deserve better.~Sharon

Believe it or not after my boyfriend dumped me I bought most of the books concerning breakups and sad feelings.This was by far the best!When my boyfriend left me I acted kind of crazy calling him 20 times in half an hour that day! After a few days I felt so humiliated that I wanted to call him back and prove him I am not a hysterical girl. This book had all the answers to my problems. It stopped me from calling him for one more time and it stopped me from being humiliated for once again. I also wanted to make a closure and call him for the last time so we could talk calmly and so we could separate with friendly feelings. Big mistake! Rhonda made me realise that the only closure you should make when s/b breaks up with you is with yourself. Now after reading it some times when I have the urge to call him I just look at the cover and all I've learned comes to my mind. After a couple of minutes I feel ok! Read Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go again and again cause every time you'll love it and appreciate it even more!~Peince

A overview of the book Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go , from the Rhonda Findling website: "Are you compulsively calling your ex-boyfriend or obsessing about him? My book, "Don't Call That Man!" teaches you how to contain your feelings of desperation and neediness and let go of a painful relationship. "Don't Call That Man!" teaches you how to break out of the compulsive cycle of calling him over and over, and how to stop clinging to him when your feelings aren't reciprocated."

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